#NewBeginnings

It’s never too late to start something new.

Do you remember the last time you felt so down that you desperately needed to get away from everyone you knew to restart your life and have a new beginning in everything?

Did you leave everything behind? How did you feel? Was it nice knowing you had a second chance to restart your life and make your dreams come true?

Unfortunately, most people would answer no to the first question. The worst of all is that they prefer to compromise on their current situation than dare to move forward.

Sadly, we have come to a point where people keep living the lives they want only in their dreams.

But, shouldn’t we think a bit more that we only live once, and we are supposed to be happy each day for the rest of our life?

As far as personal relationships are concerned, I think it is not right staying in an illusion. Being honest and getting away for a new start after having been clear about your feelings to your partner who shared some of her/his time with you it’s the best and most appropriate solution.

I believe that staying in a job you don’t like is absurd. Is there any serious reason you shouldn’t take the next step, invest in your own ability and thrive in the career you always wanted?

Keep in mind a few things…

It’s never too late to start a new career,

It’s never too late to find the person that will make you smile,

It’s never too late to find happiness.

Life is short, live every single moment to the fullest and never have regrets.

#ToxicPeople

Just leave them behind and move on. Life is too short and you deserve to spend every single moment enjoying yourself with those who respect you and appreciate your presence in their lives.

Even if you don’t have friends or family, it is better to be alone and feel just good while searching for tranquility and a purpose that will help you discover who you are and reveal the beauty of your personality, than being next to people who are talented in ruining the lives of others.

It’s not difficult to come across toxic people. Sadly, there are so many out there and the number of their community keeps increasing. These are the only ones who should be avoided for your own good.

Toxic people think they know everything, enjoy judging every single day everyone and every fact that takes place, and they love invading other people’s lives spreading their hate, negativity, empathy and insecurities through pure and sensitive hearts just to hurt them and remake our society in their reflection.

Toxic People are everywhere; they could be your best friends and even your beloved family members. All that matters is keeping in your life only those who make you feel nice and willing to share beauty with everyone around you. It’s not your job to deal with those who don’t admit their traumas and deny any kind of help regarding they have no issues.

Sometimes, when we make decisions about who we want to be with, we confuse the meaning of love and we find it difficult to decide for the best of our future.

Things are simple, mutual love always wins and there is no doubt about that. People who exploit your kindness, positivity and willingness to offer your help to those who need support should be out of your life. Otherwise you will find yourself exhausted. And that is not love.

Concerning your life and your relationships, keep in mind that you don’t have to agree with everyone all the time and no one should do the same thing for you, too. It is absolutely natural to have a disagreement with a person you love, and I’d say I’d worry if someone would say there are no problems with his /her relationships.

Knowing how to behave and treat someone properly when various facts come up to disturb your life and home is the key to having a healthy relationship.

Love is meant to be the medicine that can cure every disease, and showing your pure intentions is the best way to make every dangerous threat disappear.

Just remember that love never hurts.

#Acceptance

Is it possible to accept others and love them for who and what they are? Have you ever wondered what others think about you and whether they are willing to accept you or not?

I believe that when we talk about acceptance we ought to be honest with ourselves.

Every day we have to be able to focus on our goals and think about what really makes us happy because, what actually matters, is whether we want to make any changes to improve ourselves or not.

Do you feel good in your own skin? Are you satisfied with your life and all your choices that made you the person you are?

In my view, the most important thing is being happy, feeling comfortable and confident without being so worried about others.

Being accepted by your family and your friends is great since they mean a lot to all of us. But, accepting the person you are is the most important part of your personal development since this is the process that will define your future and your life.

There is no way to move forward and get what you want if you haven’t dealt with your inner thoughts and emotions. There is nothing more necessary than trying to figure out what you are and what you want to do with your life.

I don’t think it’s nice trying to be among the people who actually care about acceptance by others when you haven’t fixed more serious issues concerning your own personal identity.

I would say it is dangerous because while chasing acceptance, you might do things that you would probably never do and never like doing.

The first step is to make sure you feel awesome being you and you enjoy doing what you want. If not, find out what to do to feel nice and happy.

Only when you do that you will be able to find the people you want in your life and they will love you for what you do and what you are. And you will not have to worry again about acceptance.

Improve your life for your own good and all the rest will come…

#Violence

There are no words to describe the action. You will never find the appropriate words to describe the consequences that affect the people who suffer because of an aggressive behavior.

I am sure that most of us would never justify the use of violence under any circumstances. In any case, we should always examine all sides and try to find what’s best for all avoiding the use of brutal actions.

We should always listen to the words of others, think very well, and then, speak honestly about the way we feel and consider things.

Although we have come to a point where we have everything we could have ever imagined, it seems that the human nature will never change.

How can we explain the fact that there are countless people who suffocate and can’t stand being in a hostile environment where the use of violence is the only way to impose a tyrannical way of living?

How can we move on to the next chapter of living as a united humanity when there are families who have serious problems in a daily basis and can’t get away?

The worst type of violence has to be taken seriously from all of us.

“Home sweet home,” does this mean anything to you? It means everything to me and many other people of course, but things are not the same for all of us.

There are families we all know that are dealing with a soul-destroying problem, and that is domestic violence.

Sometimes I wonder what the true tragedy is, being alone or being a member of a family that is tearing apart and every day that is passing by loses the chance to come closer to pure love.

Having a partner or a family member that is aggressive is absurd. If you are the one who enjoys causing physical, emotional and sexual pain you need to see a doctor as soon as possible. You are a dangerous person who demands immediate care and should seek for help and appropriate treatment.

If you are the one who sufferers from the behavior of your partner or another person you have to dare to stand up and do one simple thing. Go, don’t even think about it. Leave everything behind and start over before you find yourself in bigger, more difficult, more complicated and more serious situations.

Life is too short and you have every right to live it with your own rules and your own needs. You are strong enough to make it as long as you believe in yourself and your ability to become happy.

Time is running, be careful and make sure you spend every single moment with someone who deserves to be in your thoughts, your heart, your soul and your life.

#Behavior

I’m sure the last many months were tough, strange and irritating for all of us, and I do believe that we came to a point where we didn’t know how to react and behave ourselves while sharing the same roof with another person/s.

As it seems, the following months will be weird as well, and we have to be patient and control ourselves, and think before we speak because we might hurt the feelings of the people who stand by our side and tolerate us, yes, tolerate us.

It’s not easy, but we have to try to make it work throughout our life and not only this difficult period for the best of all. Don’t forget that it’s our behavior what actually makes us unique and special to other people.

Being logical and ambitious is healthy and will benefit you and your people. Being demanding and indifferent is absurd and will finally get you nowhere but loneliness. It’s up to you whether you want to be a great friend/partner or not.

Being conscientious, creative and active is wonderful since you want to do things right with your special way and you will always be busy dealing with your purpose. On the other hand, being distant, with no interest and lazy will make you seem like and you don’t care about anything.

Being curious and cautious is great because you’re focused on discovering carefully whatever you want. Then again, being settled into your comfort zone and moving into careless paths can drive you to a monotonous way of life, having lack of experience and no contact with reality.

When we share our life with someone we love, we have to do our best to create a beautiful relationship. Communication is the key, good behavior is the only way to unlock the door to harmony and a good life.

What you get is what you see, but the moment you reveal your soul and expose yourself is very critical for your future. Not because of who and what you are, but for the value of your personality and the way those who mean a lot to you see you as a person.

Don’t forget that it’s very important to try hard not to disappoint your people. They feel proud of you and love sharing their precious time with you. 

#Habits

 

Do you like following the same routes every day without taking the time to think about them? If the answer is yes, I guess it’s great and hope you’ll probably agree with me.

Habits are good and necessary to move forward with our lives since they can make our living more interesting and, sometimes, help us develop our personalities.

There are good and bad habits, and we all know what we should stop doing in order to have a better life avoiding physical problems and mental health disorders.

It would be helpful if we could stay focused on the good habits since we could only benefit from a creative daily routine. I’d like to mention a few good habits and hope you’ll get inspired.

A few good habits…

Focus on you. It’s very important to maintain your health and working out is a good start. Being strong can help you do everything you want.

Don’t be afraid to meet challenges. It’s one of the best ways to discover who you are and to become better in your life.

Respect everyone and work hard to achieve your goals. The structure of a healthy society is based on kindness. Being respective is the first step to develop a great relationship for all.

Admit mistakes, nobody is perfect. It’s not a disadvantage; it is not a shame nor should be regarded as a weakness. Admitting your mistakes will make you stronger.

Communicate as much as you can. It will make you happier and you will have the chance to meet new people. It’s a great opportunity to come close to people who could inspire you.

#Appearance

Can you remember the last time you came across the worst judgment? Do you feel beautiful in your own skin? Do you actually care about what others think about the way you look?

There are a lot of times where I don’t really understand why someone should deal with your life, your habits and the way you look.

Does it matter if someone is handsome, tall and thin? Does it matter if someone is not attractive and likes being fat and short, but is a good person as well?

I do believe that the way we look affects the people around us and makes everyone wondering about our self-confidence and happiness, but why should we be judged when we are trying to be happy while no one really knows what we are going through?

I have met so many people so far and I can tell that those who are the happiest are the people who live with passion and do not want to be liked for their lifestyle and for the way they look.

Being fat doesn’t mean that you are a bad person. If you want to eat a burger and fried potatoes just do it and ignore the judgment of other people. If you like your messy hair, your old and strange clothes, and still enjoy going out and having fun you are awesome.

At the time you respect others and you don’t cause problems I’m with you, and I am sure we could be friends. I guess everyone would hang out with you.

Every effort you make to look better should be awarded and no one should talk behind your back making comments that could embarrass you and keeping you back.

When you feel beautiful and happy in your own skin is something a lot of people envy and you should be proud of being you.

Fix your hair, put on your favorite clothes and shoes, and do not let anyone make you feel awful.

You are the person that you are and no one has the right to judge you. If you desire to change your life and habits do it because it’s your decision.

Love yourself and keep living your life to the fullest.