One
problem, two possibilities that none is acceptable, but we have to make a
choice. We would prefer to get away from this freaking experience but we can’t.
What could we do to help ourselves and the people we want to protect?
It’s
definitely one of the worst experiences we will have to encounter for at least
one time during our lifetime, and there is no doubt that we will not have
anyone to help us out because we will be responsible for the consequences of
our actions and decisions.
The first question
that rises in this complicated situation is predictable. “Why do I have to go
through this and make a decision that will affect my life and the lives of others?”
As much as
you try, there will be no answer and you will feel trapped in your mind’s
doubts. So, in my opinion, take it easy and don’t rush to speak up or announce
anything unless you are sure about the best possible solution. Take it slow and
deal with it. Take your time without thinking that you want to get rid of everything nasty as fast
as you can.
There is no
way to satisfy everyone and you will realize that, soon, you will run into both
allies and enemies, and that’s because you will hurt someone’s pride and self
confidence. No, it’s not going to be easy. You will have to pull your head
back together and reconsider your behavior concerning your relationship with
your people.
Try to be
clear, honest with yourself and always objective. Open your mind and try to see what will change in the
future and how your decision will affect those you respect and love (especially when the feelings are mutual).
Now it’s
the time to listen to your heart and hear again your inner voice. Trust your
instincts and do not be afraid to meet the truth. It will be hard to find the
best solution, but it will reflect your personality and will always follow you
through your entire journey in this world.
Your
decision will be the personification of yourself so make it count for your own
good.
In future
you will be able to overcome, but you will never get past the doubts and guilt if
you are not completely fair and faithful to your beliefs and self respect.
It’s your
life and you decide for your living. Be careful and be honest because there is not
a second life in this world for no one of us.
Don’t forget that, in the end, all that matters is integrity and morality.
