Is it possible to accept others and love them for who and what they are? Have you ever wondered what others think about you and whether they are willing to accept you or not?
I believe that when we talk about acceptance we ought to be honest with ourselves.
Every day we have to be able to focus on our goals and think about what really makes us happy because, what actually matters, is whether we want to make any changes to improve ourselves or not.
Do you feel good in your own skin? Are you satisfied with your life and all your choices that made you the person you are?
In my view, the most important thing is being happy, feeling comfortable and confident without being so worried about others.
Being accepted by your family and your friends is great since they mean a lot to all of us. But, accepting the person you are is the most important part of your personal development since this is the process that will define your future and your life.
There is no way to move forward and get what you want if you haven’t dealt with your inner thoughts and emotions. There is nothing more necessary than trying to figure out what you are and what you want to do with your life.
I don’t think it’s nice trying to be among the people who actually care about acceptance by others when you haven’t fixed more serious issues concerning your own personal identity.
I would say it is dangerous because while chasing acceptance, you might do things that you would probably never do and never like doing.
The first step is to make sure you feel awesome being you and you enjoy doing what you want. If not, find out what to do to feel nice and happy.
Only when you do that you will be able to find the people you want in your life and they will love you for what you do and what you are. And you will not have to worry again about acceptance.
Improve your life for your own good and all the rest will come…
