How many times have you wondered about various situations and many people that came across your life, and thought about the energy you spent, your precious time to deal with them and, finally, you realized they deserved nothing but indifference?
Unfortunately, I have done it many times. But I will not do this again because it keeps me back from being able to do what I want, and move on with my life.
There are many people who tolerate situations/others and have given up, believing it was meant to be without understanding that the only thing they manage to do is destroying their lives.
And this is something I will never understand.
Why would someone let other people exploit his kindness, love, patience and support when he knows that every effort to change would be vain? (I do believe that only a few people can really change and appreciate those who trusted them.)
When you tolerate situations and other people for too long you can only hurt yourself, your pride and your dignity.
Life has a funny way of proving us wrong, and the moment we realize that there’s nothing left for ourselves -since we have given everything we had to satisfy others- and no one is going to be there for us to help us pull our heads together, we might regret, but the pain gets worse.
Healing the pain of others is important and admirable. Protecting others and sharing the love you were given is a miracle in our days and keeps happening, but have you ever thought if there is anyone in your life that would stand by your side through the bad times?
It’s not necessary always to step back and allowing others to take your kindness, tolerance and love for granted.
Making mistakes it’s okay, we all make mistakes. It’s not okay if you keep doing the same things knowing that the persons you rely on will tolerate your attitude again and again…
Being a nice person is great. Being tolerant is not always good and most times the consequences of your kindness will only hurt your heart and your soul.
Love others, but don’t forget to love yourself too before it’s too late…
