What does
family mean to you? Is it the place you feel limitless love covering your
heart? Is it the place you feel kindness and support hugging your mind and
actions? If not, there is a problem.
In my view,
family is supposed to be the safe place where you take the first steps toward a
bigger family, the society you are going to get into as a healthy member so as
to grow all together in a way where we can all be happy and help each other
surpassing every obstacle successfully.
Personally,
I am lucky and blessed since I grew up in a family where the house was always
and still is a home, and normal love was always there in every step and every
move I made. I never missed support and always felt free to follow my dreams.
Unfortunately,
there are families where there is nothing normal and make their members feel
suffocated while trying to escape far away to find a better place to shelter
their souls.
If you are
not an adult the only thing you can do is just waiting. Be patient and focus on
you. Read as much as you can since knowledge is the key to unlock the doors of
your success and be prepared, your time will come very soon. Never forget that
every storm will pass, nothing lasts forever.
If you are
an adult, take your chance, move on and leave everything behind. Do not let
anyone tell you that you can’t or won’t make it on your own. Do not allow to
anyone insult your personality, laugh at you and question your abilities.
It might
seem and sound strange, but there is no point arguing and dealing with toxic
people, just leave and don’t waste your time and energy because there is
nothing you can do. Just go away and follow your dreams.
Don’t spend
a second explaining and never feel guilty. As long as you always felt lost and
weird in a family where everyone is supposed to feel safe, move on and don’t
look back.
I believe
that miracles do happen and you will get what you deserve.
Life is
short and we should be happy.
Protect
yourself.
Respect
yourself.
And live
life.
Now.
